Paying attention means:

Commitment means:

'Someone explaning, with full of verbal and non-verbal gestures to another person whole-heartedly, up to the extent of ignoring surrounding'

Paying attention simply means: listening attentively and giving feedback, showing attentiveness..

The picture below: Commitment and attentiveness exists, but I'm the distraction...Hahaz..sorry about that.. What is Arden trying to explain anyway?