What is Love? Subjective huh?

E (8.35pm): "i begin with XXX already, you don't disturb her anymore, don't sms her."
*this time i was taking my bath n no mood here..so,between this time i asked that gal whether it's true or not, but she said she dono everything... haha.. so i start felt like wanna make him.. *
E (10.34pm): "This is between you and me, wat for u sms her. do u think she will tell me things if we are friends? use ur head and think. once again don't disturb."
H (10.40pm): "hahaha.. so funny.. i don believe that u are a students of university.. u looked like a kid.. i wanna know izit tat u less a lot of love? ur mum din gif u more love? i don believe that u are that kind of 'gentlement' guy.. u use the 'force' way to walk ur love-relationship wif u gal fren be4? hey man.. plz don do like tat la.. it's not a good action for a guys.. i don care wat relationship between me n her, i jus know that u doing the stupid thing wif her now.. i'm wanna laugh here.. u know? i never see this kind of guys. i tot u aren't before, so i wish u two.. but now i really can't imagine that u are such the low-standard guy.. take care ur self thr la.. no need to care about me here, i'm good n fine here.. n i don wanna know ur things or anything wat about happen at thr.. jus don disturb my life here.. ok? thanks.."
E (10.49pm): "haha.. what a good english u have.. how do u know is force? are u her? u just use ur head n think a bit... we are having so much fun here. and u? haha..."
H (10.56pm): "ok.. as u like wat u thinking now, maybe u tot u are more understand about her.. ha.. so funny, but sorry, i don care.. do wat u like 'gentlement'! i don wanna know how fun u having, no interesting to know, that's ur thing.. if she wanna call the police i also can't do wat, tat's ur nice news in melaka n uni.. i jus wait n see wat stupid thing's u'll do.. second, don disturb me till made me angry, don make me find the ppl go thr n find u.. i'm not a nicely man to play for u guys.. jus take urself n study, don make so many problem, i don like such the useless student, be a good student n study this few yrs if u wanna get comfortable life thr without bothering from me.. ok? haha.. u looked very nice ya.. "
H (10.58pm): "i think u should go to see the doctor.. u look like almost get crazy soon.. hav ur medicine 1st.. "
E (11.14pm): "haha.. what a person that have so many craps to talk about... i'm so afaird of u... u need any detail to find me? i can gif u..." (i was recieved this msg in the moring.)
H (7.04am): "Eh.. u go n take care ur love now.. i'm so lazy to talk wif u n wasting my time my money here.. don worry, actually, i don think like wanna wasting those money to go thr find u.. make my hand dirty if do something of this useless dog.. maybe u still think tat u are the best in love n everything.. haha... so funny.. sigh, take care urself la.. lazy to quarrel wif u here.. i'll do wat i like wif her.. wat to do? ha.. "
E (7.37am): "haha.. looked like i knew a chicken here.. don't dare to do things that already said.. come find me if u are not chicken.. i can give u my address.. oh ya.. no wonder u will fail in every love life... couse you are too gentlement.. haha.. i can't believed i knew someone like u... the worse person i have ever knew.. how old are u.. wake up la.."
H (8.36am): "ha.. no need la.. she father will find u.. take care urself more then me ya.. "
E (8.55am): "Please go for english course . ur english sucks. Her father say of before . what for? haha. what a chicken. oh forgot that ur english sucks. find the meaning of chiken."
E (9.32am): "oh.. forgot another thing.. u this kind of people doesn't have much friends.. how to ask? haha.. oh ya.. do u wan me to pay for ur english course? haha.."
H (9.27am): "haha.. ok ok.. as u like.. i don quarrel with such the stupid useless uni student.. wasting my time n money here.. better i use it to cal her.. izit? ha.. why u wanna msg me n telling these n those i also dono, maybe u think i like to heard about u, or maybe u wan i help u.. haha... sorry i don care n i jus do wat i like.. ya, now i'm very interesting to disturb u. if u dono how to walk ur love life, better don walk la.. why so confuse thr n getting so much problem thr?! sigh.. very worried u.. ai yo yo.. don like a kids la.. jus felt so funny to see u here... ok la.. take care urself la.. don always getting noisy thr.. go to attent ur class.. oh ya, if u can't eat or do anything without her then u go n die la... u looked like a gals u know? ha... erm... u still wanna msg me? but i think i wont reply u anymore... wanna share these to all my fren,her fren here n any fren who study in MMU thr.. ha.. take care ya..
E (9.51am): "kids? i think u look more like it.. oh.. a dog is more suitable. don't simply bark. i just tell u not to disturb. u the one that simply bark and say so much."
E (6.31am): "oik dog.. look like u are really chicken. don't dare to reply me.. Dog dog dog dog"
H (6.39pm): "ha... why u still being the kids thr? haven't finnish play ah? i tot i don wan to make the dog noisy thr ord.. but it still noisy... yes? anything can i help u? get problem again? u looked so free now hor.. don need to go for dating meh? so free ah?"

What does the word 'love' means actually? i dont think anyone have a exact definition for it...but as for me, its a feeling between 2 people...a natural feeling that comes with no force, something that comes naturally from the heart...and for me...loving someone doesnt means that u must possess him or her physically...even if i am not capable of winning her from the heart, or when she already had loved ones, wishing her all the best in her life will be something great to do...and somehow it really feels sour to do so...i dont wan someone to be with me just because i do it by force, or even from getting her sympathy...thats not true love...something that wont lasts for the fact...a string pulled too hard will have reached its deformation point and for which is bound to break off...thats the point here...no point pushing too hard, just to 'own' her physically and not winning her heart... for me, as long as she is happy with life, i will be too...

Besides, acceptance, give and take is something really crucial in this sort of things...no point to be so suspicious of the one you love...if u win her heart, suspecting this and that means you are not trusting the one you love...whats the point? there is no need to be so suspicious if u really owns her, win her heart....and thats wad keeps the word eternal...loving a person for what she is, and not expecting her to change because of you is something really true...if u expect the person u love to change just because u love her, whats the point of loving her if u find some of her character irritates u?come one lar...think urself...don act as if u are a child lacking love...

As for the conversation above: its between a friend of mine and his ex's newly 'forced' boyfriend...it really makes me feel ashame of men...here's my bro's blog add:http://blackplace.blogs.friendster.com/blackplace/ know more from here... it really raged me...where got people speaks like that....acts as if he is a kid...don even noe how to think properly, how to love someone? does he even noes how to love a person and makes her happy, feel being loved? don waste ppl's time is wad i wanna say...go to hell with ur own character ler...wanna love ppl somemore..u are not even qualified, not matured enough to even use the word love...how to love when you are using force, even making the one u claim u love cry? isnt that something very cruel to do, for making someone u claim u 'love' having tears drop for u? for what u did?

University student speaks as if he sounds like a kid...what is this? someone tell me...hey bro..i respect you for having the courage to critize him here...don feel bad for your english...as least u are more reputable than him...matured in thinking than him...i don think his english is that good also...go to hell lar...thought that uni student very ke si ah? streets are filled with em...jobless somemore...bro, i think u are great, for being such a nice person...no point getting angry over such a 'useful' person...just let him off..ignore what he says...i dont think he noes what is really love...he jus wan to be loved...maybe he is seriously lacking love...God help him...